i dont mind them. i think they show that T is a good T. she's looking out for me and all her other clients by having those boundaries. if she didnt have those boundaries it could get sticky and messy and do more damage in the long run. if she became personally emotionally involved with every client she has outside of her office....she would be so burnt out. i dont think she'd have much left to give inside the session. she wouldnt be able to be the strong, stable, steady person i need her to be.