Alot have already been mentioned, but another HUGE GLARING red flag is when the guy calls says the phrase "stupid people like you" during what is supposed to be a friendly conversation on a first date! Or when he takes you on a tour of the area in which he lives and in passing, he brings up how he went to a shrink because his girlfriend "made him go" but it didnt work so he broke up with her. True story! Should've heeded those two but I only saw what I wanted. Lesson learned.