Why does my brother not care about me? Our parents and other brother all died in 1996. We were always a pretty close family, but now he seems to forget I even exist. We live 1000 miles apart but I come back "home" to visit, see friends & relatives about every 2 - 3 yrs.
This time I came home for Aunt's funeral, and he tells me 2 of my 3 friends died recently! But he never bothered to call me to tell me when they happened. Then I found boxes full of our family photos I thought were lost 15 yrs ago that he never told me about, but that I had asked about years ago. He doesn't see any of this as being a big deal - very casual about it all. I'm single, 53, female. I was VERY depressed for 10+ yrs; better now. He's 55, married, 2 kids.
We are each other's only living immediate family. Why does he forget about me and disregard my feelings?