recently, i stopped seeing my T of 9-10 or so months because i was not seeing progress and, in retrospect, some of the advice had been questionable.

in my final session, it was revealed that there is no cure for my major issues. i worked on these issues a lot and that's one of the reasons for my ultimate frustration with therapy - no progress.

in retrospect, i wonder if the T would have been better off working on issues where i could have made progress, e.g., changing careers, getting retrained for a career that made more money. helping me with things that could actually have made my life more bearable. at least then, there would have been progress for the better. instead, though i worked hard, i feel there was nothing gained.

comments? has anyone had results seeing a personal coach rather than a T? ideas?