Am I too dependant now? Yes. We've talked about it. T feels as I get healthier and more stable the need to email all the time will start to calm down and I will become less dependant on him. We talk about it every few weeks to get a feel for how I feel and what he thinks. It used to really upset me but now it doesnt. I'm going to be dependant on him until I'm strong enough to stand on my own, and that's just how it is.