
May 14, 2012, 06:58 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Ouch. Sticky situation, huh? I agree that he needs to do more. You shouldn't have to come home, and then work your fanny off when you get there.
Why not draw up a list of "chores" that need to be done, and "assign" them to each of you? Naturally, he's going to have a 'few' more than you, and PLEASE give him the wine glasses to wash and dry!! LOL But give him the chores that he gripes about the most. Maybe this will help a little.
And/or -- you two might benefit from couples counseling. I'm not sure you're communicating very well. You may "talk" but that's not the same as communicating. In counseling, you can get some tips on that. Plus you may need to learn how to "fight fair." lol Alot of couples don't know how to fight -- low blows are thrown, and things get said that shouldn't be. It wouldn't hurt to try a few sessions.
I hope you two can get things worked out. I think you can -- it's just gonna take some work on BOTH your parts. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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