When we got together he had been clean for 3 years and was finishing school. A year ago, some tall tale happened and he relapsed, and he's been "getting clean" and relapsing over and over again for the past year. Now he's on cymbalta and remeron too. In addition to xanax. I saw him yesterday and noticed 2 huge swollen (bright pink) looking welts on his hands yesterday and asked him, he said they were old, I'm calling shenanigans on that. They totally were not from weeks ago. I'm sick of being lied to & I don't think he's really serious about getting clean. It wouldn't even bother me if he didn't lie, to be honest. But, he just treats me like I'm his parents or anyone else in his past who yelled at him about this, and that's so not my style. I just don't think I can be with a liar. I think I should break up with him. Also he started smoking and wasn't a smoker when we got together. I feel like a victim of a bait and switch scam.

Should I just leave him or stick with him, if you say stick with him then how can I support him and get him to be honest with me, because I really can't tolerate being lied to at all.