probably the best thing is for you to distance yourself from him, imo. it does sound like he's using. if it were me i'd tell him why i was detatching from the relationship. active users when confronted will protect their use at all costs. family, concerned friends and significant others.
i hope he gets honest and recovers but only time will tell. the most important person for you to focus on is YOU. i wish u well.
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