You have already gotten a lot of good answers.

I would only start working with someone who could get me somewhere. Believing in the results in imperative. Of course there is a cure for you! I worked through my neglect and my life is really good right now.

How about a career coach plus a new T? I would interview T's until I found a positive one who knew how to heal someone. Therapy seemed to have started in NY and everyone there seems to be stuck a few decades back while the rest of the country is onto the latest stuff. It reminds me of mediterranean wine (which I dislike). Wine started in that area and other areas of the world like California, Chile, Argentina, South Africa and Australia are onto the latest and better things with winemaking. I love the wine from these areas.