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Old May 14, 2012, 10:35 AM
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im just afraid to hurt her feelings or ruin the relationship
Healthy relationships are flexible and durable. When we grow up in dysfunctional families we don't learn this but it really is true.

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i think i will tell her that what she said made me angry and threw me into an abandonment issue tailspin
Very good!!
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