I definitely agree... Vent all the feelings you have... We seriously don't mind reading them and offering support where we can. We want to do that; we want to be supportive! Getting things out, either on paper or on the computer screen, helps your brain to let go of things a little, so you're not constantly rehashing it over and over. Getting it out will help you start to move on from it, learn from it, evolve from it... I am not saying that you'll immediately stop thinking about this or stop hurting... You need to grieve the loss of your relationship.

After months and months of grieving my last breakup, I finally realized that if it's meant to be, it will be. I had to try to get myself to not worry about things I couldn't control. I know that probably won't be much help now, but it's okay to take your time, feel the pain, and slowly, very slowly, move forward.

Be gentle to yourself.