what an unpleasant surprise! I had one yesterday too, and the flash of fear in my heart really hurt and then flooded all through me, so I can imagine what it must have been like for you to see her .... and then for her to speak to you .... and to call you? I wish she would leave it, leave you alone, that would seem wisest ... but she must want to explain things more or she feels sorry for all that happened and wants to express that?