T1 said, I will never leave you ....... She terminated me when I was in the hospital (not completely without warning, but much sooner than she had said she might refer me)
I asked her after one abrupt boundary change to please discuss it with me first the next time and not surprise me by telling me, oh I talked to my supervisor who said...... - it happened more than once more .....
She said one week - no, I won't stop hugging you. The next week - I talked to my supervisor and there will be no more physical contact ever ....
No, I am not really angry anymore. I just wish she had been more careful with me and with her promises (which she really did seem to mean), but she didn't altogether understand her own counter-transference and then situations neither she nor I had anticipated arose.
I don't know if it's always so much that T told lies as T made promises that shouldn't have been made because it wasn't truly possible to keep them 100%.