I haven't hit up against T's boundaries. I remember when he told me I could call and then said "don't worry I will tell you if it's too much". That in itself worried me so I rarely call. I know that if he tells me that something is too much it would hurt, I would recoil and be mortified.

I don't know if I like or hate boundaries, they just haven't become an issue in the 2 yrs I have been seeing t...or with any prior t's.