I have been with my partner for 4 years.
Things started off rocky, as he still appeared to have feelings for his ex.
We worked through it, and things seemed to be ok.
We had a child, ive found it hard to lose the baby weight.
We then accidentally fell pregnant with twins.
We had a huge fight, some nasty things were said in the heat of the moment. and i lost my twins the night of the fight.
Now he has started watching porn.
ive told him i have no problem with him watching it, so long as he doesnt come to me afterwards for sex.
No he doesnt come to me for sex at all. He watches his dirty movies and sleeps on the couch.
Ive also had rumours from his workplace that he is sending and receiving dirty messages with a female staff member, and he has recieved many 2am phonecalls.
Our together time used to involve doing things as a couple, now it involves me watching him play the playstation.

I dont know where i stand in the relationship any more.