In all fairness, I would have taken the "laziness" comment the same way. I'm glad it was resolved before I saw it, because I'm feeling pretty snappy today myself. No hard feelings, Toilet, and I'm not trying to call you out.

I've been called lazy too many times to count. Even a psych nurse, when I told her how I just can't get myself started cleaning the house sometimes, responded, "You can if you make yourself." This from a mental health professional! This was decades ago, and I hope knowledge has progressed since 1984, when that happened.