Heres what happened : I told the pastor that Im a victim.and to listen to me uninterrupted.Then I sent her an email asking her to read these.I told her to read these 2 books if ever she wants to do couynselling for victims of abuse.iTS biblical approach to overcoming abuse and leaving the abusive parent!

"Breaking the Bonds of Adult Child Abuse: A Biblical Textbook on Abusive Narcissistic Families, How They Operate, and How to Deal With Them"
Pittelli, Sister Renee; 1
"Narcissistic Predicaments: A Biblical Guide To Navigating The Schemes, Snares, And No-Win Situations Unique To Abusive Families" same author