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Originally Posted by hankster
What can be done to end this? A 3-day tantrum is pretty long for someone who is old enough to be working. This daughter is now being abusive, and that should be pointed out to her. Is she in therapy? Does she want history to repeat itself, or worse? Ask her what she is doing to help herself, to change. At least YOU are doing something, trying something new, doing the best you can. She needs to start trying also, and stop blaming her past.  |
she has zero problems pointing out what she is doing right-like being on felony probation,in a drug control program and holding her first job after 21 years. but dont DARE try and tell her shes doing a single thing wrong! shes been like this since she was very young-verbally/physically abusive,tried poisoning core-so much but we wont put it all here because its very bad and very triggering. and through it all,while she went from one counselor to another,one pdoc to another,one med to another-evvery single last one of them-in front of the daughter-blamed core for daughters behavior. so in essence everything is our fault. her multiple arrests,years of drug use,stealing,-all on us. if we had at least one person irl on our side maybe we could get some help. but we are alone with this. we are so very thankful for all of you here on PC. thursday we are going to ask our counselor what she thinks about us maybe going away somewhere