I think RomingMind is right on with what he's telling you. I know that it makes you feel more special thinking that guy really liked you but just couldn't handle a relationship with a girl that wouldn't have casual sex....but the fact is no matter what makes you feel better, this guy is so messed up, you are better off not having that kind of soap opera drama in your life. Find a real relationship with a real guy that really cares & stay away from the drama because it only leads to more drama & more trouble.