I'll tell you something, Lexicon -- my PTSD came from a childhood of bullying. I was verbally, emotionally and physically attacked every day of my childhood. If someone in my life now tried to get me to go to a place where I could expect to either get that same kind of treatment, or, perhaps go back to the old neighborhood(s) where it happened, I'd drop them like a hot rock. It would be clear to me that they weren't sensitive to my pain. I don't know who Andy is to you, but it sounds like he doesn't have your best interests at heart.

Just my two cents.

Hang tough. We're here for you. ((( )))