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Originally Posted by Gothgirl7
I've been seeing a guy that I met online for a few weeks. From the start he said he wanted a relationship. I regret skipping with him too soon. Now I don't know what to do. Now I've really screwed it up. He asked me to be exclusive like only second time. I wasn't sure. He seems to just want me to cone over and sleep over. I wanted more than that. What should I do? He also still has his profile up. When I suggested doing non sexual things, he told me he was I'll. He was also texting someone last time. I don't have a good relationship history and It makes me paranoid. We had a fight. He said he doesn't wait and waiting is dumb. He attacked me coz he said he can't read me. Well I can't read him either.
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Bluntly put, he only told you what he knew you wanted to hear so that he could get the goods...He got it, now he's done...I don't know how soon you slept with him but he is telling you what he wants from you...Sex...And that's it...Don't try to make someone be with you who doesn't want a relationship...He got the goods, now he is out. You know what I started doing? Making dudes wait...I'm not sleeping with you until x amount of time. They respect you a 1000 times more when you make then wait. I know because I have had more than one guy tell me this. When you give it up too quick, to them you are nothing more than sex.They use you, then move on to the next...It's a game...All a game. Learn how to be emotionless when you deal with certain men like this. Learn to listen and watch his actions...He tells you what he is expecting from you from the very beginning. I always pay attention. If all you want is sex, I will be as emotionless as they come...
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