I was an only child, so being a loner wasn't an unusual thing for me. I never wanted to fit into groups or clicks.....I had one good friend from jr high (7 - college....actually until we both got married to our husbands). I was involved in school activities & president of the girls honor club in junior high & class rep in high school & in the marching band.....but I never hung out with any of the groups....I always did my own thing....but was accepted for who I was. One time a girls club wanted me to join & went through the initiation stuff but decided I really didn't like being a part of a club & liked myself better being myself.......no problem....they understood & didn't make anything of my decision not to join....was still friends with those who were a part of the club....on my terms, not the club's terms. I have always been that way & really like not feeling pressured by society to be anything that I don't want to be or believe in completely.

There is nothing wrong in being a loner as long as you are holding your values & your beliefs...pressure to be anything else only causes more stress & isn't a good thing