Things are starting to get a bit interesting between me and a coworker. We've been playing around with the idea of going on a date soon if our work schedules allow for it. He seems like a pretty good guy. The problem is physical. I'm pretty inexperienced (I've never even made out with anyone before , although I've had sex twice many years ago - figure that one out if you can, because I can't), but he's divorced and has a child, so he obviously has much more experience than I do. I suppose you could label what I'm feeling as performance anxiety and a "I'm not good enough" complex. I've always figured I would be able to solve the problem I have with this stuff before I really ever had to face my fears of being considered horrible *performance*-wise, but this seems to be sneaking up out of nowhere and I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I don't want to look like an idiot by telling him I have no clue what I'm doing at my age, but I don't want to NOT say anything and still look like an idiot because I don't know what I'm doing. Any advice?