Here`s the thing, and I will be blunt. Sorry....the guys possibly see you as high maintenance. And if you are not being approached maybe you come across as being cold and like you think you`re "all that" which you do apparently think you are "all that" because you said you`re so attractive. And not everyone is into the Barbie look, FYI. Bottom line: perhaps many guys don`t know how to deal with high maintenance woman and if you possibly project a coldness, they especially don`t like that. If you like looking good that`s fine, just learn how to project warmth, kindness and love rather than arrogance. Because guys do pick up on that. Simply smile and say hello to guys you are attracted to, they will take it from there if they are interested.