Thank you for your advice. I do feel good holding onto my anger with these women. I know I will have to deal with one or both of these women in my face at one point or another when it comes to my son. I don't understand this but they seem to feel like they have more rights to my son and even in court they have put me down stating that I shouldn't have any rights to my son. I know how close my son and I have been. How much a part of his life as his mom I've been and still am. These women know nothing about us!!

The statment I made about not wanting to take my son away from people who love him.........Well, I can't just move myself, my husband and my boys far away from here just to get away from these women. My husband and I have a comercial refrigeration business and I also can't take my boys away from the rest of the family that love them. I can't take my oldest away from his father, grandfather, aunt and cousins just because I want to get us away from these meddling women. I just have to be ready when these women try ANYTHING AT ALL and fight for my rights as a mother and kick them to the curb, so to speak!! HA HA. They honestly think they have rights and they DON'T.

I do think I'm also holding on to my anger with these two because I have never, through the years, stood up for myself as his mom. For years now I have let others, my ex-mother-in-law, walk all over me. For years now I have allowed others to lie about me to my son, pulling him away from me. I never confronted his grandmother about any of it. I tried my best to talk to my son about forgiveness when we've talked about the things that have happened over the years. I've always told my son that when others in the family have done the things that have been wrong to US that they did those things because they got what they wanted out of it. That, at the time, it didn't matter to them who they hurt. They were the ones with the problems and we should understand that they need our kindness and undrstanding because we love them not our anger. I have always felt bad for people when they do something that hurts others because it's not us with the problems when they do these things, it's them. Well, I don't feel this way about these women. If you met them you would know how evil and mean they are. I can't allow them to get away with their evilness anymore when it comes to my children.

I wrote another book for you to read. SORRY. Just have alot of feelings inside and it helps to get them out, ya know?

Thanks again.
Love,
Wendy