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Originally Posted by Harley47
Please don't hate yourself for wanting a mother...I think that's quite understandable. 
With respect, and I hope this isn't taken the wrong way, I think that your desire for a dominant woman is you trying in a way to fill the void left by your own mother, an I think you recognize that. The only thing you can really do there is to seek a therapist. That, I think, is the best way to handle things.
I don't think it's strange, or necessarily unhealthy unless if affects your marriage. Have you spoken to your husband about this, by chance? |
Thank you Harley for your kind words! Yes I have talked to my husband and my T about this as much as I can but it is like a burning desire that will not go away. However after having done some more research on the issue I think I have figured out the problem Dependency Personality Disorder. Yep, that definition pretty much sums up how I am in life with everything and everyone. So yeah I think I am just screwed up, but that doesn't make the desire any less for me.
btw..I can't believe you are here for the sole purpose of helping others where you can. You wouldn't happen to be in college for something Psyche related are you?..........giggles
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