Thank you for such an insightful and thoughtful post! My Daddy (husband) is fine with having another woman in our life, we have even gone there once before together. That is not so much the issue as is finding it, or more like wanting to find something like this. In other words for me it is not so much about finding another woman, but a particular kind of woman ie..Dominant. While I know that I am looking to fill the void I feel bad about this need and desire. I mean I am technically 37 years old even though I don't feel that way most times.