As a bit of background information, I am 22 and have had one serious relationship in the past, and have slept with two people previous to my current relationship.

The man I'm with now is older than me (29). We've been seeing eachother for about seven months now. I'm very much in love with him, and think he is absolutely amazing. I have never felt so strongly about anyone before. I also think he is hot as hell He tells me every day that he loves me and overall we have a great relationship.

I have problems accepting his past. He has had three serious relationships before me, and I know he has slept with way more other woman than I have men, and that he has done/experiences more sexually than I have. And I know or know of many woman that he has slept with. One girl he had sexual relations with a few months before we met is now dating one of his friends, so we hang out all the time. I've even become friends with the girl, but it still bothers me sometimes that they've slept together, and even though I try not to I can't help but think about it.

I can't help sometimes comparing myself to other women he has been with. I often wonder whether I am good enough for him, pretty enough for him or sexy enough for him. I have never had issues like this in past relationships. I have for the most part always been self-confident. Lately I feel very insecure and worry easily about our relationship for no reason.

I think what it comes down to is that I feel like hes the love of my life, and he is definitely the best I have ever had. I get so worried that he wont feel the same and that I'm not enough for him. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I want to be confident again in myself and our relationship, but I'm not sure how to accomplish this. Any advice or guidance would be much appreciated