I bet anything he will let you explain it however you want as often as you need. You really do have to go over it a few times before you can truly process it. Each time you do, it gets easier and you learn something different from it.

The first time I disclosed my CSA to T, it was a "just the facts, ma'am" kind of story. We've gone back to it time after time now and I fill in more detail and background each time. Even with that, I still haven't been able to tell him everything. It just takes time. And the shame is so hard to overcome.

Hang in there, Wiki. You're so brave to be tackling this. It's a lot of work to get through to the other side, but you will. I have every faith that it'll be worth all the work.