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Originally Posted by lostmyway21
I always ask my T point blank if he is mad, upset, frustrated, tired, ect. If I don't I will focus my session trying to figure out what is different, why its different, and if I did something to cause it. He always is VERY honest and open about what he is feeling. I can always tell if he is tired or not feeling well, or frustrated or not himself. I would however be SUPER uncomfortable if my T was breathing fast and tensed about something. My T is always very expressive, but NOT like that. I would be uncomfortable and possibly scared that he couldn't keep his own reactions in check.
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I am usually like that as well, lost, but he kept his body really still (maybe the tenseness was an effort to sit very still), and his face was really calm. Otherwise, I think my anxiety levels would have shot through the roof. Speed of breathing was one of the big indicators of whether my father was about to blow up.