It makes perfect sense, scilence. Have you considered writing down some of the things, your fears about talking about, how you're unsure what to say and do, and just write that and give it to her next session? It can so intimidating to tell T that you can't give them what they want and need from you- maybe writing it down would make the communication easier and open that door?
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Originally Posted by scilence
Northgirl, honestly I don't know. She even said if the questions make you uncomfortable then I will just sit and listen and you can talk, would you be willing to do that? I told her no.
She said she wouldn't take notes if that bothered me. I told her no she could take notes that was fine. Because then I know she's not staring at the 100% of the time and at least with her writing she's not just looking at me.
Am I making any sense?? I know it's weird. I have never been to a T before and I have no clue what to say or do or what she wants from me??
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