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Originally Posted by hankster
I know T is in touch with his feelings; I'm the one who is having a hard time figuring out my own. Maybe I'm not looking at T as intently as some of you are? Or sitting as close? Altho we can bump fists if we both lean over. I can't hear him breathing, and I would not be able to say if his muscles were tense!
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I cannot hear him breathing, I can see it. And I am probably sitting about the same distance as you guys are -- it would require us both leaning forward to touch each other. I think it may be one of the after-effects of the physical abuse that I am perhaps a little overly vigilant to signs of agitation in people I am with. Things like rapid breathing and tense muscle get and hold my attention.