today I was talking with a friend at work who said her daughter "has similar features" like me (which I think means big boobs, lol). she says her daughter has a hard time getting taken seriously too because guys can't look past her looks. Like she's a toy or a doll or something. She's frustrated cuz her daughter is a person with feelings. I feel like that sometimes. Like people just see blonde hair and big boobs.
Reading some things you guys are saying has made me think about things though. I know for one thing, I am kind of a loner. Well not kind of, I'm totally a loner. I go places by myself and when I do try to talk to people, they probably think I'm a wierdo because who goes around by themselves starting conversations with strangers?! (I do) but I don't know how else to meet anyone.
People make stupid blonde jokes at work like as if I am made of plastic and won't have any feelings about what they are saying.
I want to be able to be me, ... but to still be approachable.
I think it's gonna start inside.. but Im not sure how to begin.