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I'm highly attractive, I can't go into places without compliments and getting hit on. For me though this tends to be a problem. I'm a survivor of many types of abuse so it really really effects me, even the slightest compliment sometimes can send me into a panic attack.
But I've learned from magazines and just time in general, you can be the best looking girl in the state, if you give off the wrong vibe they wont approach you.
If you're always sitting slouching, looking down, not smiling, they see you as unapproachable. They develop ideas about you before even meeting you. If you smile, you have friends, you touch your hair and look up a lot, things like these make you more approachable. If you look like someone who is insecure, it could also come off as "rude". Too many times has my shyness been mistaken for conceit.
It's mostly how you carry yourself. I tend to do these things on purpose. I'm one of the nicest people you will meet but when being around people that may "hit on" me, I am a complete bi... well you get the idea. I do it on purpose because it stops them and that's what I want. If you want the attention, try working on how you carry yourself that may be the problem. People can see your insecurities and all much more than you think and often it is mistaken for something much worse.
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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