Katie, yeah, i've thought that too, about him "not being the right one," and though my philosophy on life has always been that things happen for a reason, and the things that happen makes us who we are, *blah blah blah* it still troubles me. A couple times previously I had felt myself starting to shut off, and i fought it, and won, but this time, it just kinda crept up on me, and those are the times when i can't do anything about it but give up. I'm debating giving up, but I feel so awful, because my boyfriend is so incredibly attatched to me.

I'd like to hear from others with the same problem, and i'd especially like to find out how to turn it back on. I've done this for my last 4 relationships (my only four where i was the dumper, not the dumpee...) And its really distressing.
~Julie