I am going through something very similier to you. I have been with my wife for ten have to great sons and now she wants a divorce. I am in a really ruough state of mind right now to. I have been reaching out to whom ever I can talk to in order to get through this mess. It does help when you can talk about the issue. It may not be completelty fixed but the pain subsides just a enough to make it to the other side. Hang in there and we are all here for you.