I am engaged, and live with my fiance. I love him with my entire heart. I miss him when he is gone, but when he gets home I wish he would leave again.

I feel smothered by him, even when he is in a different room than I am. I go back and forth between wanting him and not. Sometimes I dont even want him in my space. He looks hurt when I tell him to back off, and maybe it is the way I am saying it.

I dont know how to explain to him what I am feeling. I am very confused. Can anyone help?

Thanks!