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I'm sorry but I would not trust him or this situation. There are so many red flags showing it's crazy...For one, I do not care how piss poor drunk you are, we got a real problem if you are texting females. About making plans to hook up no less. Had that been me, I woulda got on the phone with the friend and told her how foul and disrespectful she is. I would have immediately left him that night, no sleeping on the couche. I'm drunk, call me a cab, get me out of here before I hurt him. For two, you are asking his friends for advice or telling them about your relationship. Of course they are going to say he wouldn't cheat. You have to make the best decision that is best for you. If that decision includes staying with him, you will drive yourself insane with constant worrying. You are opening the door for him to cheat. What happens when he is "drunk" and he accidentally falls in his "friends" p****? Real talk. Are you waiting for him to cheat before you leave? I'm being serious, not trying to be an *****. You are setting yourself up to be hurt. I cannot stress this next point enough. I don't care what a man tells you, listen to his actions. Him having multiple female friends...He was being really really disrespectful for texting another woman while he is with you. Again, if you want him, be with him. Make the best decision for you. Whew...This whole situation...Listen to the signs. This is how women get hurt time and time again. You see the writing on the wall, you ignore it, stay anyway, then one day, BAM, he cheats, now you are upset and hurt when you should have listened to your intuition from the very beginning.
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