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May 17, 2012, 02:16 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Junerain has a GREAT suggestion. Make the list of all your assets -- and I KNOW you have good assets!!! I know you a little, and I know you to be kind, considerate, a loving person, and those are just a few!!! If you are rigorously HONEST, you could come up with alot more!! Like she said, we are NOT what we look like on the outside. The 'real us" is on the inside -- yes, I know we all want to be attractive but some of us (like me) can't be raving beauties. God made me with a big nose and an overbite.  Now THAT'S real attractive!  In High School I always thought I looked like Phyllis Diller BEFORE she got her nose job. LOL
Talk to your therapist MORE about this, will you? I know you probably have, but it needs to be discussed more. You are perfectly find just as you are, and if people don't accept you that way, they are NOT worthy of you in the first place!!! You deserve respect -- regardless of how you look. You're worthy of love and I know you'll find it. God bless my friend. Hugs, Lee
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