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May 17, 2012, 02:30 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I am and always have been a "people pleaser." I have worked on this for years, but it's so ingrained in me, that I'm not sure I'll ever stop doing it. 
I have no idea how to take care of myself first. Most of the time I feel empty, much like you describe. I've tried to change things, but nothing seems to work. And at this stage of the game (I'm 63yrs old and a widow) I don't see things changing soon.
I've been in and out of therapy most of my adult life, and we've worked on this ALOT.
If you're NOT in therapy, please try to find a good therapist and start. If you're in therapy, address this and continue therapy. You won't regret it! It may take some time, but it's well worth it. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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