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Old May 17, 2012, 03:16 PM
maymie maymie is offline
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Member Since: Dec 2007
Location: Oklahoma
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I'm trying not to let my stress turn into depression.
I got engaged in September of last year and from then on I've heard nothing but negativity from everyone. You name it and chances are people have been extremely negative about it. My divorced parents have been at each others throats since I got engaged, bashing one another and etc. My brother has been very rude and hateful towards the wedding in general.
I have no clue what I'm doing and every time i ask for help I get made fun of or hear all the negative things about the wedding. I've had lots of people offer to help and then the second I take them up on it they are too busy, change the subject or something just to get out of actually following through. Every time I ask someone who has been through a wedding or planning it they make fun of me for being stressed about it. I have less than three months left and although i do have a lot of it done I still have questions about things that I have no clue about. My maid of honor has been as helpful as she can be but she is very busy with her own life and helps me as much as she can and knows how to. I went to see my cousin and asked her a few questions and instead of being kind and helpful her and the lady in her office, whom I know, basically puts me down.
I'm stressed and sometimes I feel like the stress is trying to become depression and anger.
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