I have watched those same types of people who seem so successful in their early 20's get divorced, change career directions, and stumble with family planing issues in there late 20's early 30's. They are now just starting dating, career, and a successful family. So even though I have been having a slow start my friends and I are now on even footing. I know how hard it is feeling everyone is succeeding and you seem to have trouble with basic life but know as you learn about yourself you'll be able to have a more productive life. It amazed me that friends saw me as 'put together' when I felt I was drowning but I only learned this much later. I would agree try to go see a therapist. Schools generally have a list of off campus professionals that have sliding scale fees. I would suggest off campus because it never seems good to combined your school life with your personal life. Best of luck.