I am 27/f and in my marriage, this is the opposite. I want WAY more sex than he does. I'm not working after a big car accident, so have lots of time to think about it too. LOL. It's always been this way.

My husband is a sweet and considerate soul most of the time, when he's too tired/busy/whatever to really do it all properly, he offers me a no strings handjob, which I take appreciatively.

You are by no stretch of the imagination required to be ready and willing whenever he is, particularly if he keeps his own schedule, however it really does suck when the object of your lust isn't keen for it.

I'd get him to interest you in sex, with romance, erotic backrubs and stuff that relaxes and turns YOU on.

GL!