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Originally Posted by mcl6136
I would find her response really annoying were I in your shoes. It seems kind of beside the point what her own orientation is...it's almost like she felt compelled to get her hetero ticket punched in addition to reminding you, in a perhaps patronizing way, that nothing could happen.
Both things have little to do with you in a lot of respects. OF COURSE you knew both of these things...right?
You wanted to deal with your feelings, not her boundaries or her orientation. Am I at all on-base here?
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YES! You got it. I am more annoyed by her reaction, the more I think about it. Why do I care what orientation she is? Why was this so offensive to her? Why on earth would I ever think anyone is gay, just because I find them attractive? BOY, wouldn't THAT be a fancy trick! Talk about dillusional thinking! And yes, I never once thought she was gay, and I never, ever thought she was attracted to me. Ever. I am so confused at what she was SO intentioned on making it known she is straight? Who cares?!