Can't you spend more time at your house then? That's what I would do anyway, my space to rest, study or whatever. And if my mom is yelling for whatever reason, atleast it's MY mom, not some other lady imposing her will on me. I can understand why you'd clean up after your bf if you were there to help him mess, but if its messy after you arrive?? I'm sorry I just don't get it... Like I said, I'd spend more time at home until August, but if home is unbearable (idk your situation) I'd point out that bf has it good not you, and keep pointing it out.