Haha well I know you know that, wasn't picking on you in any way. I hate that look, maybe because I had a terrible relationship with my father.

I don't understand the part about giving the man all the financial control, or the parts about playing helpless, so he feels strong. I'm honestly not going to read it because don't have a lot of time, and I'm not controlling. But to the op and who ever has read it, can you give me your opinion about those two ideas. No debate, just curious.

The parts about control, well yes, no one needs to be controlling anyone and I can agree with that being good points. The title made me want to find out more.