Okay, umm I'm starting to understand. I have been dealing with my own issues and those of my families for so long, I've been missing this. I've been trying to be understanding to the republican meltdown, in regard to cultural change in the USA. I guess I'll have to deal with this. I'll begin to do the reading and become informed. I do not want women to bear children against their wishes or undergo illegal abortions. Abusive men will roll over their women to other vulnerable people, like disabled poor men, like me. It sounds to be not only the right thing, but necessary for my own survival. tks...