Equal? Smarter, girl. You wouldn't take that couch carp, or someone who would dish it out. Me, I am perpetually couchless, I am so bad at dealing with what it takes to get a couch, let alone replace one. My T said he had cases of stuff in his garage from when the ex got into some pyramid scheme - I was like, and you married HER and not me, wtf??? I would never do anything like that to you! Our idols have feet of clay, but they can still help us. It was hubris that blew up the space shuttle Challenger, not lack of technical knowledge.

Anyway, awesome post and awesome session. Seems like your husband did get some perspective on things, so that's really great!