I am rather shocked at the folks that are showing pity for the men who were caught on the Dateline show.......Someone said these guys were set up and now their lives are ruined..... OMG.... And that the "child" acted older..... And if you had a 13 year old daughter and a 30 year old man with condoms and alcohol was meeting her when you were not home.. and you came home early before anything happened... would you like just tell the man hey it is ok, nothing happened.. so go on home....

Well first of all, they all knew the age of this girl... Does that give a 30 year old man an excuse to have sex with her.....because the l3 year old acted older??????

And if I recall, each and every man on the show said they KNEW IT WAS WRONG and yet they still brought condoms and alcohol to the child's house.........HELLO ... THe men all brought condoms..... And their intentions was not to fill them with water and have a water fight....

I cannot see how a grown man of 30/40 could even be interested in a 13 year old... Is it really the act of sex?? Or is it gratification by control??? And some of these guys even go for much younger girls........

For those of you who have pity for the men caught,, next time you are at the mall, look a 13 year girl... then look at a 40 year old man..... see the having sex.... doesn't it make you just want to puke thinking of it......... and yet you say they guys lives are now ruined because they only tried to have sex..... How would you feel if your husband was having sex with a 13 year old??? Wouldn't you want to know>???

BTW, if dateline was not there... all of those innocent looking men would have gotten a 13 year old drunk or high and had sex.... am glad dateline caught them..............