That can't be easy. For now I guess just wear loose fitting clothes so it's not so obvious to others and embarrasing to you. Dr. Drew is great with these things so if you are too embarrased to ask your doctor you can ask him about it. It would involve calling a radio show but you could use a fake name. His show is Loveline and his cohosts are Mike Catherwood and Simone Bienne. It airs Sunday-Thursday 10:00 p.m.-12:00 a.m pacific time. You call 1-800-LOVE-191 anytime between 10:00 and 10:45 then they have an "open forum" with listener calls on a certain topic from 11:00-11:30 each day then they take calls on any topic again from 11:30-midnight. You will get a call screener that will ask you what your question is, take your name age, and city you are from and then they will put you on hold to talk to Dr. Drew, Mike, and Simone. You will probably get busy signals at first but just keep hitting redial and you'll eventually get through.